Get Rid of Diapers!

September 28, 2007 — Alenka | Posted in Potty Training. 3 Comments »

Nobody likes changing a diaper. But some people dread the horrors of potty training even more then the diaper changing duties. To each his own, since there are methods for everyone.

I am personally familiar only with Elimination Communication methods: I started listening to my baby’s signals right from birth based on my intuition, eventually picking up a book to guide through up and down days we were going through. Good luck with whatever method you’ll chose and remember – nobody is walking in diapers on their wedding day – eventually everyone will get through it!

Infants: Elimination Communication methods
12 months and up:

Elimination Communication method

Definition of Elimination Communication

This is the wikipedia definition:

(EC) is a process by which a caregiver uses timing, signals, cues, and intuition to address an infant’s excretive needs, partially or completely avoiding the use of diapers. Diapers can be used but usually tend to become extraneous and unnecessary after a point. The emphasis of EC is placed on communication. When one practices EC, they are in essence trying to communicate as much as possible with their child about the elimination process, helping the child to become aware of their own body. The term “elimination communication” was inspired by traditional practices of diaper-less baby care in less industrialized countries and hunter-gatherer cultures. EC can begin at birth and is usually started before six months of age, although it can be practiced at any age. If started in the later months or after age one, babies are more likely to be “diaper trained,” and may be less aware of and/or able to communicate their elimination needs. The term “late starter” refers to a baby who starts EC after six months or after age one.

I also really liked the little insight that Monica Waggoner shared in Positive Discipline group:

One of the main principles behind EC: babies have an instinct that you’re not supposed to pee or poop in your clothes or on your parents, and if you give them opportunities to pee and poop elsewhere, they never become diaper-trained and therefore never have to be “potty-trained.”

But if you missed this opportunity, you can still use EC principles of tuning into your child to train at an older age.

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“How To” – EC resources

You can find additional information on EC here:

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Products helping with EC

(clothing, potties, other things a diaper free baby needs):

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Traditional Method: waiting until your kid is ready

I have no personal experience with this method. But I am a big fan of kind and sensitive to the child’s need books by Elizabeth Pantley, so if were to “wait until my kid is ready”, I’d definitely read her book:

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3 Responses to “Get Rid of Diapers!”

  1. jessynaiduk Says:
    December 26, 2009 at 9:16 pm

    As a parent no need to do anything for our baby’s development because they develop by themselves excellently but only thing we need is to understand them properly and spending quality time with them…and just observe your baby’s actions,and signs etc so that you will be easily understand their needs and also it will be very easy to guide them. Ofcourse u need suggestions too from other parents.
    As glendoman says that the mother is the best teacher and also a best child psychologist also.

    Jessynaidu.k

  2. Kim Borden Says:
    June 27, 2010 at 11:07 am

    As an early childhood educator, with 30 years experience, I want to applaud Mommies that are saying no-thank you to elimination communication (EC). Caring for an infant is a sacred job. Things like electricity, running water, and diapers do not make the job any less sacred. For pity sake, we need to celebrate the job that mothers do, not come up with cockamamie ideas that make their job more arduous. Women who “discover” ways that make the job of mothering more difficult need to be strung up and labeled as traitors to the sisterhood! I say, “Hooray!” to the women who can see that holding an infant over a potty or a bush or a sink while going tss-tss or pss-pss does not make her a great Mom. But rather, makes her a victim of the so called experts who are trying to sell books. And to the people, who line their pockets with coins from new mommies by burdening them with more work and more guilt, I shake my head in disgust and say, “You should be ashamed!” Elimination Communication… really? I don’t think so!!!

  3. Alenka Says:
    June 27, 2010 at 9:11 pm

    :) That’s a very interesting opinion! I loved your passionate reply! I’ll stick to my guns, though. Having babies who don’t need diaper changes is really convenient. It doesn’t make the job neither sacred nor secular – just another way of parenting: a way based on the close connection to the child, respect, helping the baby label and identify his needs quite early. My little one, Smiles, is still developing his vocabulary and laughs every time he realizes that we deciphered what he is trying to say: when he shows a sign for water, I offer him a glass and he is proud and happy. When he shows me that the mailbox is both in his favorite book and outside of the window – and I say it in words – he laughs again. It feels good to be understood. If feels great to be clean. Every time he shows me, that he needs to go to the bathroom and I offer him a potty – he smiles so happily, that I can’t even imagine doing it any other way – I offer my baby one more way of being understood, one more way to be independent (he decides weather he wants to go or not), one more way to develop his senses and even one more way to work on his coordination (taking clothes off, sitting down at the potty, etc) – isn’t it great? I believe it is.

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