How do you deal with kids fear?

Read more at Dealing with Fear. Your opinions count! What do you do to deal with your kid's fears? Nightmares? Even phobias?

Not sure of the long-term

Not sure of the long-term consequences but when my 2.5 yo said he was scared of monsters, I told him that monsters were no big deal. They can't hurt us and that our little girl(friend) neighbor could eat monsters in one bite.

Basically I try to minimalize the idea of monsters but also confirm his feelings of being afraid. I also used this as a teaching moment about our family's faith in Jesus. I told my son that sometimes when Mom or Dad are scared we ask God to help us. And God can send monsters to time-out forever!


That's interesting! I think

That's interesting! I think it is actually a great idea: the God is watching over you and he'll protect you even if Mom and Dad are not around.


When I was a child my Mom

When I was a child my Mom was keeping all the scary monsters back where they belong by giving me a small raccoon, staffed animal from the fairy tail by Lillian Moore "The Thing in the Pool". The raccoon was small, but very courageous, and I was feeling the same. Now I understand, that it was really a security object. Whatever: it worked!